i understand the message people are trying to send by saying that curves are sexy, and they are. but saying that that is what a ‘real’ woman is? what about the girls who are naturally petite? that don’t have big boobs or a big butt? are they less of a woman? less sexy? a REAL, sexy, woman is someone who is HEALTHY and confident in their body. no one is the same so why do we insist on focusing on body shape rather than health?